This space gathers journal entries written over time — moments observed, remembered, and reflected upon while raising and supporting an autistic child within family life. Some pieces are thoughtful and quiet, some explore more difficult seasons, and others capture humour, connection, or small victories that deserve to be noticed.
Rather than offering conclusions, the Journal documents an ongoing experience: learning as we go, adapting to change, and finding meaning in the ordinary rhythms of family life.
Use the search box to find recurring themes such as school, sibling love, advocacy, regulation, cost, or everyday family life. You can also filter by topic to move through the Journal more intentionally.
Let’s talk about something that rarely makes it into polished brochures or awareness campaigns. Hiring help. For the past few months, we’ve been trying to
I’ve been following autism data in Indonesia for years now, and I’ll admit—it’s both fascinating and deeply frustrating. Fascinating, because the numbers keep shifting as
What if celebration isn’t about joy? What if it’s not about candles, presents, or songs? What if it’s simply about being together—without things falling apart?
Before the food is served, before conversations start flowing, and before anyone wonders why a child just sprinted past them for the third time—let me
Let’s be honest about something most people don’t fully grasp—school, for an autistic child, is not just about education. It is intervention, structure, exposure, and
Jayden absolutely adores his sister. That’s not just a father’s pride talking—it’s visible in every glance, every hug, every giggle that escapes when Assya is
Autism doesn’t just enter a child’s life—it enters the entire family. And no one feels that shift more quietly, more deeply, than the marriage behind
Before autism, we used to go on proper date nights. The kind where you get dressed up, pick a restaurant, maybe catch a movie. Order
What is autism, really? I’m not going to feed you the formal definition lifted from a medical school. Or the polite versions wrapped in pastel
No one is ever prepared for a life with an autistic person in the family. I sure as hell wasn’t. I vividly remember the early
Let me tell you about Jayden’s first day at school. Actually—let’s rewind a bit, because this story doesn’t start with shiny new school shoes or
There’s an invisible weight that many parents of autistic children carry every single day. It’s not just worry—it’s a persistent, underlying anxiety rooted in unpredictability.
Introduction People often say that raising children is priceless. For families raising a child with autism, the experience is indeed priceless—but also undeniably pricey. Love